Life as a busy mom often feels like a whirlwind of activities, responsibilities and never-ending to-do lists. It's easy to get caught up in the daily hustle and forget to take care of yourself. That's why today, I want to raise a glass to the concept of self-care and share some practical tips on how you can create your own relaxing afternoon. Let's dive into why self-care is vital for mental health and how you can carve out precious moments for yourself.

The Significance of Self-Care for Mental Health

Self-care is not just a trendy buzzword; it's a crucial practice for maintaining mental health and overall well-being. Taking time for yourself helps reduce stress, increase productivity and improve your mood. For busy moms, self-care is essential for recharging your batteries and ensuring you have the energy and positivity needed to take care of your family. When you prioritize self-care, you're not only benefiting yourself but also setting a positive example for your kids about the importance of looking after their own well-being.

As a mom, I know how challenging it can be to find time for self-care. However, I've learned that even small moments of relaxation can make a big difference. One of my favorite self-care routines is to set aside an hour on Sunday afternoons for spa day. The girls and I take our big showers (you know, the ones, the shaving, exfoliating, etc.)

Another self-care activity I cherish is swinging in the backyard with a nice drink.

Remember, self-care doesn't have to be elaborate or time-consuming. It's about finding those little moments that bring you joy and relaxation. So, here's to you, busy moms! Take a moment, raise a glass, and toast to the importance of self-care. You deserve it!

A Simple Recipe for a Refreshing Beverage

No relaxing afternoon is complete without a delicious beverage to sip on. Here are four simple drink recipes that you can enjoy:

Club Special Mocktail

For those who prefer a non-alcoholic option, here's a delightful Club Special Mocktail that captures the refreshing taste of a classic cocktail without the alcohol. Perfect for a relaxing afternoon or any time you want a tasty, refreshing drink.


  • 1/2 cup lemonade
  • 1/2 cup lemon-lime soda
  • 1/2 cup club soda
  • Ice
  • Lemon wedge for garnish
  • Fresh mint leaves for garnish


  1. Fill a glass with ice.
  2. Pour the lemonade into the glass.
  3. Add the lemon-lime soda.
  4. Top off with club soda and stir gently to combine.
  5. Garnish with a lemon wedge and a sprig of fresh mint.
  6. Sit back, relax, and enjoy your Club Special Mocktail!

This mocktail is a perfect way to enjoy a refreshing drink without any alcohol, making it suitable for everyone. It's light, bubbly, and full of citrusy goodness, perfect for a sunny afternoon or a moment of relaxation.

Vodka-Based Refreshing Beverage: Cranberry Vodka Spritz


  • 1.5 oz vodka
  • 2 oz cranberry juice
  • 1 oz sparkling water
  • Ice
  • Lime wedge for garnish


  1. Fill a glass with ice.
  2. Pour the vodka and cranberry juice over the ice.
  3. Top with sparkling water and stir gently.
  4. Garnish with a lime wedge and enjoy!

Rum-Based Refreshing Beverage: Pineapple Rum Punch


  • 1.5 oz rum
  • 3 oz pineapple juice
  • 0.5 oz coconut cream
  • Ice
  • Pineapple slice for garnish


  1. Fill a shaker with ice.
  2. Add rum, pineapple juice, and coconut cream to the shaker.
  3. Shake well until chilled.
  4. Strain into a glass filled with ice.
  5. Garnish with a pineapple slice and savor the tropical vibes!

Gin-Based Refreshing Beverage: Bee's Knees

The Bee's Knees is a classic gin cocktail that is both simple and refreshing. This drink combines the floral notes of gin with the sweetness of honey and the tartness of lemon, making it a perfect choice for a relaxing afternoon.


  • 1.5 oz gin
  • 0.75 oz fresh lemon juice
  • 0.75 oz honey syrup (see below for instructions)
  • Ice
  • Lemon twist for garnish


  1. Make the Honey Syrup: Combine equal parts honey and hot water, stirring until the honey is fully dissolved. Let it cool before using.

  2. Fill a shaker with ice.

  3. Add gin, fresh lemon juice, and honey syrup to the shaker.

  4. Shake well until the mixture is chilled.

  5. Strain the mixture into a glass filled with ice.

  6. Garnish with a lemon twist.

  7. Enjoy the delightful and balanced flavors of your Bee's Knees!

This classic cocktail is simple yet elegant, offering a perfect blend of sweet and tart flavors. It's an excellent way to unwind and enjoy a moment of relaxation.